Crowning Glory
by Joanne Corey
“The silver-haired head is a crown of glory…” Proverbs 16:31*
Friends recognize me
in a crowded theater
down the street
across the restaurant
among the congregation
Strangers comment
how beautiful
how they wish
theirs looked the same
I smile
remember the first silver
that appeared
among the brown
before I was in high school
multiplied after my daughters were born
until at fifty just a bit
of brown was left
Then I let it grow
past my shoulders
down my back
in silver waves
finally
*Scripture taken from the New King James Version®. Copyright © 1982 by Thomas Nelson. Used by permission. All rights reserved.
PHOTO: A sunny Sunday morning in the backyard, February 2015.
NOTE FROM THE AUTHOR: For years, my hairstylist tried to convince me to dye my hair to cover the silver that was becoming noticeable in my twenties and accelerated through my thirties and forties, but I always declined. I am not the type to fuss with hair and makeup and I loved the silver color that was replacing the dark brown. She said that while men with graying hair look distinguished, women just look old, but I appreciated looking older. After I graduated from college, I was working in music ministry, assisting the organist/choirmaster. When I would be among the treble choir, whose members were in elementary and middle school, people would mistake me for one of them. I appreciated that a touch of silver at my temples might keep me from being confused with 12-year-olds. Times have changed. Now, one of the hottest shades for young women to color their hair is silver. Will I begin to be mistaken for a younger woman again?
ABOUT THE AUTHOR: Joanne Corey lives and writes in Vestal, New York, where she is active with the Binghamton Poetry Project, Bunn Hill Poets, and Sappho’s Circle. She is pleased to return to the Silver Birch Press blog in 2016 after appearing in five series in 2015. She invites you to visit her eclectic blog, Top of JC’s Mind.
I am in love with your hair. Your poem does it justice! 🙂
Thanks so much, Tricia! I’m so glad you like them both.
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Beauty will always be in style, just like your poem!
Thanks so much for your kind words and for hopping over here from Top of JC’s Mind!
I have to tell you: I love silver hair. I love YOUR hair! And it is hilarious that I see young girls “rocking” their fake silver locks while yours are natural.What if my natural color is Old Witch Gray? I am afraid to find out. Nice poem that made me smile even before my first coffee!
Thanks, Susan! I’m glad I brought a smile to your lips. Who knows? Maybe some day you will discover that you can rock your natural silver or gray, too!
Congratulations on the poem! It was lovely, but not as lovely as your silver hair! I really like it. If only mine would be that way, I wouldn’t have to keep dyeing mine! Hope you’re having a wonderful weekend! :0
Thanks for the lovely compliments! The weekend has been fun so far because Silver Birch Press chose to put this poem out today. I love when people read and comment! Hope your weekend is wonderful, too!
I have always loved that gorgeous mane of hair. I’m glad you celebrated it with this lovely poem!
Thanks, Pat! You’ve gotten to see my hair transform over the years. I love that Silver Birch Press series give inspiration to write about things I might not have, otherwise.
Great poem. I don’t understand how silver hair has gotten so popular as a dye job. But since I don’t ever plan on coloring my hair, I’ll let it get silver highlights on its own time. Love your silver locks.
Thanks! I think you are wise to let your hair change in its own time. It’s difficult after people color their hair for decades to let it grow out silver/gray/white without that salt-and-pepper transition period.
Well with blonde hair most people don’t even notice my gray. Even as a teenager, I never had the inclination to dye my hair. A few perms but never any color.
So, you get to be salt-and-white-pepper! My husband is blonde, too. It’s taken a long time for it to actually look like his temples are gray instead of blond.
I’m impatient that my grey is taking so long to become more obvious. I’d far rather have distinguished silver streaks than a sprinkling here and there. ;~}
Someday, Dale….
Great poem and lovely hair!
Thank you, Sofia! I think I can take more credit for the poem than the hair, which is genetic good luck!
I like your words and your hair!
Thanks so much, Laura!
Wonderful!! Love who you are!
Thank you, Mary! I was just reading your poem a short while ago. So much fun for us poets to connect here at Silver Birch Press!
Thank you, Mary! I was just reading your poem a short while ago. So much fun for us poets to connect here at Silver Birch Press!
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