Only One Hat Fits
by Brenda Davis Harsham
I try on hats,
in stores by the dozen,
but only one fits
my too-big head.
I wear it hiking
by millponds, up hillsides,
along ridge trails
and into the cloud bank.
The tight weave
keeps my face
from burning red
and the brim hugs without
headaches.
I walk cracked sidewalks
pushing a stroller
stocked with every wipe
and diaper cream.
My daughter’s curls bounce,
her feet kick and she sings
to herself. And me.
My hat brim gets dark,
then darker.
My daughter grows out
of her stroller,
and we sell it on craigslist.
I feel a pang for its loss.
I explore disc golfing
in a hat, slam into low
branches. Stuffs into
a backpack, so light.
My hat brim stains darken.
I try on hats again.
No other hat fits
my too-big head.
I can’t give up my
favorite hat, despite
its yellowing appearance.
I throw out holey socks and
stained dishtowels. I sell my
daughter’s bike trailer and
her stroller. But nothing
can make me give up
my hat. Nope. Nothing.
PHOTO: The author in her hat atop Mount Killington, Vermont.
NOTE FROM THE AUTHOR: I fit into men’s hats, but unfortunately they don’t make ladies’ hats in men’s sizes. I’ll keep trying on hats, until I find one like it. Or I’ll wear my hat until it frays into oblivion.
ABOUT THE AUTHOR:
Brenda Davis Harsham lives and works in New England. Her poetry and prose have been published in on-line literary websites or journals including Silver Birch Press, The Writing Garden, and The Paperbook Collective. One of her poems won First Place in NY Literary Magazine’s Awake Best Poetry Contest and is forthcoming in NY Literary Magazine’s Awake anthology. Another poem is forthcoming in the Best of Today’s Little Ditty Anthology.
Brenda,I love that you’re keeping it, no matter the look. It fits; it’s comfortable, It takes care of you! Wonderful to read this poem!
It’s been with me on some fabulous journeys. 🙂 Thanks, Linda!
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Thanks to Silver Birch Press for publishing my poem, Only One Hat Fits. Have a magical week this last week before the New Year!
This hat will keep your face away from the burning sun and keep raindrops from your own curly hair, Brenda.
I liked how you spoke of your daughter growing out of her stroller and covering other facets of mom-dom. You look like a happy Mom! 🙂
I have used those acrylic paints in craft stores to paint over cloth. I wonder if this or a small pan of Rit dye in a tan or light blue would work?
I’ve been tempted to dye it. But what if I ruin it? Or it leaves my forehead blue? LOL Thanks for commenting, Robin.
Wonderful poem, Congrats on getting it published! and they should make hats in more sizes. I struggle to find hats that fit.
Thanks for commenting, Dan! My boys wear adult male sizes already. I wonder where they will find hats when they are fully grown. I wish more companies would make hats that mold to your head. That’s what happened with mine. (I think.) It’s a triumph to me that I have such an awesome hat with my big head. 🙂 Perhaps I should contact the company and see if they still make that hat… 🙂
Everyone in our family struggles with this. The worst is baseball and football team hats. I have so many that I’d love to wear, but I look silly in them.
Women’s baseball caps look ludicrous on me. When they mostly don’t fit, you have to hold onto the ones that do. 🙂
Lovely poem – so glad to discover Brenda and Silver Birch Press!