Mother Tells Me I’m Not Sick
by Elaine Nadal
Her unrelenting certitude is as irritating
as her criticisms of other peoples’ food and
her refusal to let anyone cook in her kitchen.
She tells me God doesn’t lie—to have faith.
A leap is a star many say can be reached, but I’ve seen
a small frog in the middle of the road, dead from
curiosity or maybe from wanting to live.
My body is dead wood.
Am I a good lover?
I can no longer dance how I used to
when Mother wasn’t looking, and I’d listen
to songs of the flesh. Mother tells me not to profess
an ailment I don’t have. She says it’s all in my head.
Sometimes, I can’t brush my hair or pick up a spoon.
Sometimes, I don’t feel beautiful.
And then, I’m faced with guilt and shame.
I should pretend everything is fine;
I should smile all the time, and
not let anyone in my kitchen.
Mother hasn’t visited.
When she calls, I lie about what I made for dinner.
She tells me it sounds good.
I don’t indulge her truth. I don’t disclose how
I’ve been at my lowest, and suddenly,
I’m graced with a brief interlude, a moment of comfort
sufficient enough to consider the firefly and its light,
the wings of a hummingbird,
the way a weeping willow thrives,
offering its leaves to cover, stretching
its branches to hold—like a golden hug, transferring
an energy unknown yet familiar to the spirit.
It’s because she hasn’t given up.
I can feel when she’s praying.
Previously published by Minerva Rising Press.
PAINTING: Weeping Willow and Water Lily Pond by Claude Monet (1916-1919).
NOTE FROM THE AUTHOR: There have been times when I’ve felt dispirited, and suddenly, a sense of hope arose. Each time, I was certain that it was my mother’s love for me, reflected in her prayers.
PHOTO: The author (left) with her mother (December 2023).
ABOUT THE AUTHOR: Pushcart Prize and Best of the Net nominee Elaine Nadal is the author of two poetry chapbooks, When and Sweat, Dance, Sing, Cut, published by Finishing Line Press. Her fiction and poetry have appeared in several journals and anthologies. Nadal has shared her work at many venues. She also delivered a TEDx talk on hope, poetry, and music. Visit her on Instagram and on her website at elainenadal.com.